Woman refuses to let her roommate move her boyfriend and his 2 kids into their 2 bedroom apartment: 'She said I’m being selfish and unsupportive of her relationship.'

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  • A happy father with a toddler son indoors in kitchen at home opening fridge

    Young dad holds his toddler son, hoping to move in with his girlfriend and her roommate.

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  • Am I the bad guy for telling my roommate she can’t move her boyfriend and his kids into our place?

    I live with my roommate and we've had a pretty smooth setup for the past year.

  • We split rent evenly, both work full time, and it's been pretty low stress. Recently she started dating someone new, and things moved really fast.

  • Now she told me she wants her boyfriend to start staying over more, and eventually move in.

  • The issue is he has two kids, and she said they'd be around a lot too.

  • A small toddler boy holding a newborn baby brother at home

    The two small children were fathered by the roommate's boyfriend.

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  • This completely caught me off guard because when we moved in together, it was just supposed to be the two of us.

  • I didn't sign up to live with a couple, let alone kids. I work a lot and really value having a quiet space when I'm home.

  • A woman sitting on the couch holding a cup of coffee, enjoying her quiet time at home

    A woman sitting on the couch holding a cup of coffee, enjoying her quiet time at home.

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  • I told her I wasn't comfortable with that and that I don't think it's fair to suddenly change the living situation like that.

  • She got upset and said I'm being selfish and unsupportive of her relationship, and that I should be more understanding because it's important to her.

  • Now things are really tense between us, and I feel like I'm being made out to be the bad guy for just wanting what we originally agreed on.

  • AITAH for not wanting her boyfriend and his kids basically moving into our place?

  • CynicalSince74 NTA If she wants to live with him and his kids they need to get their own place

  • Aromatic_Service_439 Original Poster's Reply That's what I'm saying. I need my space. Not little kids screaming and breaking my personal belongings.

  • celticmusebooks So how much will he be paying for him and his kids to invade...opps I mean move in with you? I'm seeing five people who will be sharing the apartment so your share of rent and utilities going forward would be 20%. What does the lease say about moving other people in who aren't on the lease?

  • Aromatic_Service_439 Original Poster's Reply Well to what we agreed, everything is 50/50. However I'm starting to think maybe I should contact our leasing office at this point.

  • Plastic-Cabinet67 Things moved fast because he needed a place to live.

  • Daddinator 1701 NTA. This is absurd. Of course she can't add 3 more tenants to your home without your approval. The idea is nonsensical

  • Worth-Season3645 NTA...But you both now have to decide who moves out when the lease is up. She wants to add a family, you do not. Living together as roommates is not going to work anymore.

  • Due-Yoghurt4916 Check you lease and be prepared to move. If she disregards your no than fill in the landlord. I better they will have a problem with three new tenants not on the lease causing damage and wear and tear to the property

  • TangerineCouch18330 Study the lease to make sure of your rights. Notify the landlord proactively. Say NO!

  • Big-Benefit-230 WHAT???? You cannot move a significant other with kids into a shared living space. Who the h | doe she think she is. ABOLUTELY PREPOSTEROUS.

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